10 Language Learning Do’s and Don’ts

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1. 🚫 Don’t: Get stuck on long lists of vocabulary or grammar rules. Instead, focus on using the language in context.

Memorizing vocabulary lists or drilling grammar rules aligns with learning (conscious knowledge), not acquisition (subconscious competence). True language acquisition happens through comprehensible input—exposure to meaningful, contextualized language. Focus on messages you understand, not isolated words or rules.

2. ✅ Do: Enjoy the learning process; it should be fun and engaging.

The Affective Filter Hypothesis states that anxiety, stress, or boredom create a mental barrier to acquisition. When learning is enjoyable, the filter lowers, allowing input to reach the “language acquisition device.” Fun is not a luxury—it’s a necessity.

3. 🚫 Don’t: Constantly ask “How quickly can I learn?” Instead, prioritize enjoying the journey.

Language acquisition is gradual and subconscious. Obsessing over speed creates pressure, raising the affective filter. Trust that consistent, compelling input will lead to progress. The “din in the head” (when language sticks) happens organically.

4. ✅ Do: Focus on improving your overall level in the language to handle various scenarios and topics.

Broad exposure to diverse contexts ensures a robust foundation. Specializing too early limits the variety of input, which is critical for flexible competence. Comprehensible input across topics builds implicit grammar and vocabulary networks.

5. 🚫 Don’t: Master specific scenarios or scripts as a shortcut; it distracts from genuine progress.

Scripted interactions (e.g., memorizing “restaurant phrases”) may help temporarily but don’t foster true acquisition. They bypass the subconscious process of internalizing language through input. Focus on understanding, not performance.

6. ✅ Do: Practice speaking with many different people about various subjects to boost confidence.

Speaking is the result of acquisition, not the cause. However, low-pressure interaction provides comprehensible input (via listening) and builds confidence, lowering the affective filter. Avoid forced output—speak when ready, not out of obligation.

7. 🚫 Don’t: Test yourself unless necessary (e.g., for work or university entrance). Pressure and self-doubt hinder learning.

Tests measure learning, not acquisition. They often prioritize explicit knowledge (e.g., grammar rules), creating stress that heightens the affective filter. Only test when mandatory; otherwise, let comprehension guide you.

8. ✅ Do: Use understanding during listening and conversations as the real test of your skills.

This aligns perfectly with the Input Hypothesis. If you understand the message, your brain is acquiring the language. Comprehension—not test scores—is the true indicator of progress.

9. 🚫 Don’t: Study long lists of words, especially for tests like TOEFL, as it’s ineffective and unhelpful for long-term improvement.

Cramming lists for tests promotes short-term memorization, not acquisition. Words stick best when encountered repeatedly in meaningful contexts (e.g., reading, conversations). Prioritize input over rote memorization.

10. ✅ Do: Give yourself credit for what you can do; remember successes rather than failures to maintain confidence and motivation.

Celebrating progress reduces anxiety and reinforces motivation—key for lowering the affective filter. Language acquisition thrives in a positive, encouraging environment.

Final Thoughts
Language acquisition isn’t about hustling harder. It’s about engaging with compelling input, staying relaxed, and trusting the subconscious process. Ditch the flashcards, find stories you love, and let your brain do the rest.

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